Soulmate : To Meet is To Be

“Everyone dreams of finding their soulmate. It’s a universal quest.

All over the world millions of people are looking for their true love, their amore thier ame soeur, that one special person with whom they will spend the rest of their life.

And I’m no different.

Except it doesn’t happen for everyone. Some people spend their whole life looking and never find that person.

It’s the luck of the draw.

If, by some miracle, you’re lucky enough to meet the ONE, whatever you do, don’t let them go.

Because you don’t get another shot at it. Soulmates aren’t like buses there’s not going to be another one along in a minute.

That’s why they’re called, “THE ONE”.” 

 ― Alexandra Potter, You’re The One That I Dont Want

Have you ever think of someone who you predict or maybe hope to be your soulmate? I did.

Once. But at this particular age, which I felt like I’m quite young with these matters, I believe I’m not ready at all to even talk in deep about this.

It is true that thinking of marriage sometimes makes us felt happy, thinking that we have meet the right one.

But do we?

Well, to meet is to be. If you want someone to be your only love, you should ensure that you have become just like someone that you want to have.

Why?

To have someone good, you first have to be a good person. Its Allah’s promise. As Allah said in Quran (the translation) in Surah An – Nur, verse 26 which is as follows :

“(Lazimnya) perempuan-perempuan yang jahat adalah untuk lelaki-lelaki yang jahat, dan lelaki-lelaki yang jahat untuk perempuan-perempuan yang jahat; dan (sebaliknya) perempuan-perempuan yang baik untuk lelaki-lelaki yang baik, dan lelaki-lelaki yang baik untuk perempuan-perempuan yang baik. Mereka (yang baik) itu adalah bersih dari (tuduhan buruk) yang dikatakan oleh orang-orang (yang jahat); mereka (yang baik) itu akan beroleh pengampunan (dari Allah) dan pengurniaan yang mulia.”

Honestly, no one wants a bad person to be his/her soul mate.

Sometimes, I wonder how some people could know that particular person is their soul mate. I just can’t figure out how. Well, I just believe its Allah’s will and power.

If He says so, then its happen. Kunfayakun.

When I read a novel of Alexandra Potter entitled Do You Come Here Often?

I was kind of amaze with her writing which open up my eyes and mind. It makes me feel that true love does exist though its just in the novel. So imaginative, right?

No matter what, she wrote such a fantastic novel to be read.

In a nutshell, to meet someone is to be someone. Of course, we should put some effort in becoming someone just like who are we want to meet.

Then, do not stop praying so that Allah will give you someone that you want to. But do not regret for whatever that Allah has given to you whether you like it or not.

Believe and keep faith, there is something beneath it. Let’s pray for a better future and may Allah gives His strength to us to move on in our lives. InsyaAllah.

P/s : 

 “How do you know if someone is the right one?”

“You’ll know it.”

 - Quoted from Do You Come Here Often by Alexandra Potter -

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